I had a mis- missed carriage at 12 weeks. It was my first pregnancy and my husband I had had been thrilled since the very early days when we first suspected. Our baby was due Octoebr 6th. We had been keeeping the news a secret and were days away from telling the whole world about our baby. Only, instead of sharing our happy news we had to explain our devastating situation. I got my first period on Mother's day.. thru myself into work and ws doing okay, joined a gym class.. But as of late I seem to be falling apart at the seams again. I know people are only trying to be helpful with comments like "I'm sure it will work out better next time" or "you can try again" or " you have to move on"... I just feel like because we didnt' tell people, because they didn't share in our hopes and dreams for the 9 weeks we knew, they don't understand. I feel like people are encouraging me to forget this pregnancy ever happened.. but I am only going to have been pregnant for the first time once. I feel frustrated and robbed.