Adrienne,

I recently lost my baby and am having a hard time too. I noticed that people try to be comforting, but they have no clue. Strangely, my step-mother even suggested that I get my tubes tied! I have no idea what her motivation for that is, except perhaps she doesn't want me to go through this again and put my heart and life at risk. I am not sure what my options are going to be as I will be turning 40 soon and have to work on healing from this very major loss. Anyway, it struck me as very insensitive.

Jessica, you are so right. Once I received the confirmation that I was pregnant from the pregnancy test - I was so overjoyed. How difficult to be on the other side.